Today's review is for a flemish book, which I doubt has been translated into english, so sorry for those who are going out to look for a non-dutch written copy.
Oh, and it is sort of very adult content, but it is an intresting subject...
Translating as "Cheat on Me", this book talks about the point of view of a true Cuckold, and how he came to discover his fetish, how it influenced his life, and how he grew into the role and it affected his longest lasting relationship.
The author is namely a cuckold in the not most extreme sense (he doesn't aim to be sissified for example) but who strives to see his partner happy, including on the level of sexuality, even cooking and cleaning while his partner meets up with her lover. This is a journey he explored step by step, and which feelings awokened when he still worked in the belgian government circles and had a stormy encounter with one of the cleaning ladies there. Going with her to her home, right before the act her husband walked in who was just there and okay with it all. While he went away that day, he got intrigued by the behaviour of the husband.
Slowly over the course off the following years and true various relations, he started to fantasise more and more about his partner having sex with other men. When he meets Rachel and starts a long time relation with her, he gets to live this fantasy, but it results in her actually moving in for a while with her lover, before eventually coming back to him.
The book interchanges his own experiences with references to actual psychological studies, a fetish theme that back in those days hadn't been explored that much at all though. But it does give an intresting insight into a still rather taboo and non-understood fetish topic.
And before anyone asks if this is my thing, I'll reply with the same question I gave to people who saw me reading the book: if you are reading a book about a child murderer, is that because you are also one?
Oh, and in this case, the answer is that only Slaanesh knows...
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